Many women, including myself, have a hard time deciding which kind of lingerie to wear. In my opinion, it depends on where you are wearing it, and if you plan to wear it for comfort or to please that special someone.
For example, if you are wearing some sexy lingerie under your clothing, you obviously want it to fit correctly and be comfortable, especially if you are wearing it for an extended period of time.
In contrast, if you are wearing it for a special private evening with your lover, you can go a little wild and pick something that will excite you from the moment you put it on (not to mention how it will affect your partner) Depending upon how excited you both get, you may not be wearing it for very long! (that is very exciting in itself too!) You always want your lingerie to have maximum effect on your lover.
So, in summary, you need to decide what the event calls for, and dress (or undress) appropriately. Once you get a collection of items to choose from, you can start to mix and match from different outfits and you can always surprise your sweetheart.
Remember, you can be whoever you want to be in the bedroom………….